I'm 61 , and just beginning to cross this dementia bridge with my mother. It's devastating, frustrating, sad, unfair and agonizing. Having said that - YOU MUST try to live your life without the burden of feeling like you are always disappointing someone. That burden helps no-one, and ultimately deprives you and your family of a happy Emily. Boundaries are very difficult to place , or balance , if you will , is difficult to strike - but it is mandatory. SELF CARE. Don't wait until it's too late- Take the time for you and your young family now so you can make happy memories... TRUST.
I'm 61 , and just beginning to cross this dementia bridge with my mother. It's devastating, frustrating, sad, unfair and agonizing. Having said that - YOU MUST try to live your life without the burden of feeling like you are always disappointing someone. That burden helps no-one, and ultimately deprives you and your family of a happy Emily. Boundaries are very difficult to place , or balance , if you will , is difficult to strike - but it is mandatory. SELF CARE. Don't wait until it's too late- Take the time for you and your young family now so you can make happy memories... TRUST.